You've created the perfect family in your mind. But your reality is leaving much to be desired. 

You start your morning with a racing mind full of your jam-packed to do list.  Then there's the kids.  If you're not shuttling them from place to place, you're worried about whether or not they have good friends, are eating the right foods or are learning enough at school, all while they gripe at each other and tell you you're the worst mom in the world.  The romantic honeymoon nights you and your husband once shared have turned into long battles over budget and in-law disputes which end with you both falling asleep not into each others arms.  You've made great strides in your career, but at home you feel like a failure. 

You've lost yourself in motherhood.  You spend more of your time managing your family than you do enjoying them.  And at the end of the night, you're not even sure you're managing them well.  This life is more overwhelming and isolating than you ever imagined and the rest of the world seems to have it all figured out.

I get it, totally been there.

My name is Calvalyn (pronouced, Kal-va-lin) and I'm a wife, mother of four daughters, and mimi to two precious grandsons. Years ago, when my oldest daughter was struggling with anxiety and my husband and I were trying to figure out how to manage a family of six on what felt like a non-existent budget.  I made a decision to step out of my comfort zone and visit a behavior coach who helped us create a plan for our family that saved our marriage and my sanity. 

When I was working as a school counselor, my specialty was helping teachers manage behaviors and helping children build relationships and manage their own emotions. Along the way, I came in contact with families who were struggling the same way I had been all those years ago.  Here's what the families I've worked with tell me.

  • No matter how much I yell, I can't get my kids to listen.
  • My house is full of chaos, I just need some peace
  • I'm getting pulled in so many directions, I can't keep up.
  • I'm so busy with my kids I don't have time for my own interests
  • My husband and I have had the same fight so many times, I don't know what to do

Sound familiar?

Well, I'm here to tell you, from personal experience, things can get better!  With a few basic tools, I'll help you transform your home, your family, your WHOLE life into the life you've dreamed of. So if you're ready to stop surviving your life and ready to start thriving, you've come to the right place.

Now it's your turn to let me help you!

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